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Post by Jeremy Sterling on Dec 18, 2007 19:02:39 GMT -5
Was just in a car accident. I'm kinda speechless, and I know she's looking from support or something from me, but to be honest I don't have any idea what to say.
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Post by Commissioner Warrior™ on Dec 18, 2007 19:08:26 GMT -5
Wow. That's...I don't know. Just try and be with her. Comfort her somehow. Hold her close. Listen to her. Maybe say stuff like 'it'll be ok'. Or maybe not, I'm not sure. I think the best thing though would be to just try and be with her.
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Post by Jeremy Sterling on Dec 18, 2007 19:09:48 GMT -5
I can't be with her though, and that's kinda why I'm like what the hell am I supposed to do. I don't have a parent that can like drive me to the place and I don't have my license yet so it's not like I can do anything and honestly I feel like shit because I don't know what to do. This just sucks.
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Post by The Creep on Dec 18, 2007 19:45:18 GMT -5
Ermm call her
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Post by Mr. C on Dec 18, 2007 20:30:25 GMT -5
She'll understand if you honestly cant do anything. If listening is all you can do, she'll understand. Perhaps even finding a way to keep her mind off of it.
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Post by Archangel on Dec 19, 2007 11:06:53 GMT -5
just try being there for her. Sometimes not saying is better then running your mouth and making things worse.
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Post by rodriguez on Dec 19, 2007 16:29:17 GMT -5
^^ Do Roberts Idea.
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Post by Immanuel Taylor on Dec 19, 2007 17:45:08 GMT -5
Call her, Hug Her, do whatever just make her see that you are there for her.
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Post by Jeremy Sterling on Dec 19, 2007 18:49:26 GMT -5
I just pretty much spent the entire day with her today. I think she's feeling better, though I'm kinda disturbed since she was supposed to be in the car with him, and had she been with him, she would be dead. His car is completely totaled, he's lucky to have gotten out of that wreck with only a broken leg. This has been some scary shit.
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Post by echoesie on Dec 20, 2007 13:47:42 GMT -5
Yeah, car wrecks are always scary...but life has to go on. Be thankful it wasn't her in the car, or that her brother wasn't killed or seriously injured. Comfort her, be with her, but you have to encourage her to move on -- sitting on the "What if..." isn't healthy and gets nowhere.
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